9 Simple Tricks To Make Men Stay Committed To Relationships ~ By Evelyn K. Audu
If you have been in more than one relationship, you probably will understand that keeping a relationship in the pink is not a piece of cake. I’ve heard ladies complain to me bitterly about the attitude some guys put up. You know how it works when things go wrong; we exonerate ourselves and blame others.
The reason some men are not committed to their relationship is not all their fault. Some ladies break the rules too. And when a man ends a relationship, he shouldn’t be crucified. Moving out of a relationship suggests one thing – it’s not what you want. People don’t leave what they enjoy. It is therefore a lady’s responsibility to keep her man. At least, we should do our best to make our relationship work.
I know you might want to remind me of the deunzzy–duzzy guys. I know the bad guys are out there, but I’d like us to focus on the regular guys for now.
The Big Deal
When it comes to being in a committed relationship, men too look for emotional and mental satisfaction as much as women do. Probably the wavelength of their needs and expectations may vary from person to person.
In order to keep men in relationships, you must make them fall in love, not just with your personality, but also with your character. You might want to read that again.
Ladies, here are few things you must know as well.
To keep him hooked to your side, you need to treat your man, NOT just the way you want him to treat you, but also the way he wants to be treated. A little role reversal is necessary from time to time. The tips below will guide you:
#1. Let him (sometimes) win:
Although not a rule, but protocol dictates that men should be the ones to lose all the domestic fights. But then, let him win an argument or two every now and then. Your defeat will not only boost his ego, but will also make your next victory feel sweeter. Winning a domestic fight gives him a sense of control over the relationship, which men need every now and then to calm their machismo, or else an outburst awaits, which will not be good for the either of you.
#2. Be submissive, as much as possible:
Every man desires a submissive woman. And being submissive does not mean inferiority or the loss of respect. Rather, it means that you’re ready to become a wife. You must learn to break some of your rules for the greater good of your relationship. Remember, when your man is happy, you will be happy too.
Being submissive also does not mean weakness or a loss of identity. Rather, it means strength, trust, and willingness to make things work. Some women find it difficult to be submissive and it hurts their relationships. What man wants an arrogant woman?
#3. Answer his fantasies:
There are just a few things men love more than their fantasies being answered by their sweethearts. Ask him what he wants, what he would like to do, or what he would like you to do – just take control. Although men love staying in control, they equally enjoy being guided too. What’s more? It would also drive away the boredom that might be creeping in your bedroom. Just keep these three points in mind – be passionate, be naughty and be spontaneous.
#4. Be flexible and supportive:
Men adore women who can adjust, and who are simple and supportive. Be honest but not brutally honest (and yes, there is a big difference!). Try not to nag him and do not mock his dreams and ambitions. Supporting a partner, especially during his tough moments is not an easy task for everyone.
#5. Show him off:
Just as you love it when your man brags about you, your habits and qualities; he would love it as well when you do the same. Bragging about your man, or “showing him off” always sends out a loud and clear message that- “I am lucky to have found a man like you!” This point could be a bit difficult for most ladies but trust me, it would make your relationship a special one.
#6. Tend to his “loves”:
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Watch the football game with him, cheer for his favourite team, show interest in his hobbies, play his favourite video game with him, treat his mother/family like yours, get along with his friends and encourage him in his endeavours. All these activities will show him how much you care about him.
#7. Give him space:
Most women feel that giving their partner a space might make him run in the opposite direction. But, when your man truly loves you and he’s committed to you, believe me, he is not going anywhere. So, loosen the leash at times. Give him his space and let him enjoy his time out with his buddies, without incessantly calling or texting him.
#8. Appreciate him:
Don’t you love it when your man appreciates you for things you do and the person you are? Also, does it not make you feel good to be in a relationship where your partner does not take you for granted? Well, it goes for the men too. So, another simple trick to keep him hooked to your side is just to make him feel appreciated as well.
#9. Well, no matter how much men may deny finding pleasure in what they call “sappy romantic” gestures, they too enjoy being at the receiving end as much as you do. So, give him some hugs and kisses, even when there is no reason to. When he comes home from work or when he has done something, no matter how small it may be, give him a tight hug or a big kiss, and watch him melt away like butter.
What’s more? The unexpected shower of love time will make him consciously or unconsciously do special things for you, trust me.
I’m sure you’d have a great and lasting relationship if you practice these tips.
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