Love is like a flower. It begins to die, gradually, when you stop caring for it. Essentially, things of worth are meant to be handled with care. Think of how to grow a bu...
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As you may already know, leadership is not necessarily wearing a big tag, occupying the corner office or any such paraphernalia that we attach to power and leadership. I ... -
How do you know a person is ready for marriage? Think for 2 minutes. Time's up! Your guess was wrong. I will prove it shortly. What I learned in the last 10 months ... -
This is the second month of the year 2020 - hopes are high, spirits are raised and somehow, we believe the New Year came bearing gifts. While this feeling may lead us on,... -
You’re almost behind if by now you’re still not prepared for the year 2020. Trust me; those who will achieve great heights are by now ready for action. In fact, many ... -
There he was, standing tall; wearing a smile that would melt the hardest of hearts. He had the eyes of many shining stars in a still dark night. He looked like a French m... -
Success in any area of life is determined not only by how great we are at what we do, but largely also by how people perceive us... -
Day: Last week Thursday Time: 4:38 pm Spot: Blessing's room The following conversation ensued between two friends: Blessing: "Babe, tell me something! Tell me you're not ... -
This post contains 2,200 words. Scroll down to “8 Easy And Sure Ways To Make More Money Now” if you do not want to read everything. I meet people daily who speak impr... -
In my last post, I wrote a fine piece on why you should not tell 'The Truth' and how telling 'The Truth' could destroy your relationship. Read the post now if you miss it... -
Ever seen this amazing nursery rhyme? It goes like this: Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. It is used to help children develop a thick s... -
Every man's way is right in his own eyes. An armed robber has a reason for his actions, so does a prostitute. The man who assaults his wife will prove himself righ... -
I had a rare opportunity of interviewing one of Nigeria’s best husbands last weekend. I was completely blown away by the raw bliss a 79 years old man still shares wit... -
This piece is a selection from my latest book on Emotional Mastery. It will come out soon. I see a lot of people share and exchange negative emotions everyday. I know peo... -
I’ve helped a lot of people with their relationships for many years. And it’s amazing that most married individuals have regrets. In fact, a private stud... -
As you grow through life, one sign that you have really come of age is in the realization that everyone is on a race seemingly heading for a place called there. I speak o... -
“To touch is to give life.” Said Michelangelo. How true! Holding hands with your lover always feels good. Did you ever ask why? Maybe you should. We all love to be hu... -
I get asked almost every day - Paul, what’s your ground relationship rule? Paul, what’s the one thing you recommend for great relationships? Paul, how do I make my bu... -
Someone asked me on Facebook last week, "Paul, what's your take on online dating? Is it morally right? And how can one safely date online?" I wasn't expecting the questio... -
I used to hear people say 'True Love Never Dies.' But, my question to such people is; how do you define true love? Are we saying all failed relationships are the product ... -
I have no doubt I can help you get back your ex. I've been here for many years - helping people with their relationships. Let me hold your hand and show you how I do it. ... -
I've had to help people move on. Some, after they got dumped. Others, after they dumped their lovers. Either way, it wasn't easy. Walking out of someone you had a romanti... -
One day I wrote a beautiful piece. I knew it was nice ‘cos I really was in love with it, and that doesn't happen always. Just when I was almost done, my system tripped ... -
'I love you' are 3 words most people love to hear, especially the female folks. But instinctively, ‘I love you’ suggest different things to both sexes. Most women fee... -
Setting up a business is a smart person's best move. Aside the network and the people it brings into your life, it also makes you smile to the bank. Have you ever ... -
If you have been in more than one relationship, you probably will understand that keeping a relationship in the pink is not a piece of cake. I’ve heard ladies complain ... -
I was at a company on a special assignment few days back. On getting there with my team, an old man rushed towards us and said, “Yes? Yes? What’s the problem? How may... -
You desire a great relationship, don't you? That was needles, I know. We all long for amazing relationships, but we don't always have it. In fact, most relationships suck... -
Your desire is to live an impactful life right? One that will leave traces of your footsteps on the surface of the earth huh? Fabulous! I think we have something in commo... -
Great relationships are products of patience and commitment. Being the vulnerable ultimately makes relationships blissful. However, it takes courage and determination. Le... -
There are two key things that keep people in relationships: Love and Connection. You connect first, and then you love. When love begins to die, which is not uncommon amon... -
Is it right to occasionally snoop on one's spouse? This post is quite sensitive and highly debatable. You have the right to your views and beliefs and you should freely e... -
What did you do with 12 months? It's amazing how time flies! So, after everything... The hustling The anxieties The plans The wishes The love shared The pain and the gain... -
Have you ever questioned the reason you mostly enter into bad/toxic relationships? Let me guess... you never did. You only blame the guys for being bad... that's al... -
I have only been interviewed for jobs twice in my life. And both were remarkable! My third job, the best I’ve had required no interview because someone who knew my capa... -
Many years ago, a lucky American stumbled upon a formula which when he mixed in water created a drink that was very delightful to the taste and therapeutic to the body. T... -
While writing this article, I recalled an entrepreneurship course was introduced few years ago into the University Curriculum by the Federal Government in a bid to addres... -
If you've not been following this super story, You should click HERE to read the Part One of the story. HERE, for the Part Two. HERE, for the Part Three and HERE, for the... -
Beware of false knowledge; it is more dangerous than ignorance. ~ George Bernard Shaw No one likes to be considered a fool, but, fools there are! Now, it is not my intent... -
If you've not been following this story, Read the Part One of the story HERE, the Part Two HERE and the Part Three HERE. She waited to see what I'd do... My mind ran into... -
I worked with one of the foremost NGOs in Nigeria that helps women and children . I saw a lot of women l... -
If you've not been following this story, read the Part One of the story HERE and the Part Two HERE. I guess the words were right and my body language was accurate. S...
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Collaborative effort is something that is important for young Nigerian and African entrepreneurs who are espoused to the one-man business idea. We need to learn how to br... -
Read the Part One of this story HERE. "Good to meet you," she said . "Same here," I typed back. After we chatted for about 20 minutes, she demanded my...
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Yes, you read that correctly. And note that it reads ‘angry customer’, and not just a dissatisfied customer. I will explain what I mean with a real story. About three... -
Grinning from ear to ear, caressing the Nokia phone on my left hand, my back was well rested on the chair, my eyes were looking straight up, focused at nothing specific.....
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Ever bought a book and regretted it? You walk into a bookstore and you were attracted by the catchy title and cover design so much that your curiosity got the better of y... -
I’ve been on the seat between lovers for many years. I’ve listened to different stories of hurt, jilt, heartbreak, lies, pretense, deceit, infidelity, etc. I’ve int... -
Have you ever wondered why it is so easy for people to do away with you like some piece of trash or withered vegetables? Have you ever been depressed and confused because... -
There is no doubt love is one of most powerful emotions to be experienced. And while you’re feeling the love, your body is producing more endorphins and immune cells th... -
That’s her.” He whispered to me after nodding his head in response to a greeting. The fair complexioned lady who greeted cat walked hurriedly past us. She was wearing... -
Several years ago, I decided to start a flower nursery. After about a month of laboring at it, I gave up on my effort, exhausted and frustrated. Two years later I tried a... -
Has it been a bother to you why you’re unable to smoothly settle your differences with people, whether your spouse, colleagues at work, church folks, neighbours, custom... -
Before You Fire Your Boss: 3 Things To Consider Over time the idea of ‘firing your boss’ has really caught on with the larger populace, and you will readily find many... -
https://soundcloud.com/user-301566650/7-acts-of-great-relationships-1 Hi, this is your audio book, 7 Acts of Great Relationships, listen and enjoy it. About The Book: Thi... -
Time is really the only capital that any human being has, and the only thing he can’t afford to lose." –Thomas Edison When it comes to productivity, it’s the same c... -
As Father’s day drew near, I was thinking of how great our men are, how they shape the world by their way of life. I thought about how dry and boring the world would be... -
Donald Trump is no doubt a great man. You can probably call him the most loved billionaire in the world. It’s really impressive to see young business owners worth hundr... -
My scars remind me that I did indeed survive my deepest wounds. That in itself is an accomplishment. And they bring to mind something else, too. They remind me that the d... -
Studies have shown that "Connectedness" is the single most important factor that determines happiness and health. This, of course, is the result of healthy relationships.... -
1. Smart user or smart mind: A smart phone is of no use if the user is not smart. More important than a smart phone is a smart mind, because without a smart user, a smart... -
Almost no one is foolish enough to imagine that he automatically deserves great success in any field of activity; yet almost everyone believes that he automatically deser... -
Paul, you’re not working hard to become a smart kid, don’t you want to reign amongst the high and mighty? Don’t you know you need to study hard, sharpen your IQ, be... -
They talk more Ladies are more expressive in nature. They are verbose creatures (when they hang with the right guy). But when it’s down to playing games, side-lining... -
It is the great Helen Keller who was credited to have said that, life is an adventure or its nothing. As you find your adventure through life, there are bound to be high ... -
I don't quite remember the names of those machineries. Yes, I just called them machineries, they weren't metallic and they weren't bullets, in fact they weren't anything ... -
Between launching a product and landing the deals, one key skill must be put on show: “excellent word usage.” Be it in negotiations, trying to motivate your team, aro... -
One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never dec... -
If you would attain what you are not, you must always be displeased by what you are. For where you are pleased with yourself, there you have remained. Keep adding, keep w... -
Don't fool yourself that important things can be put off till tomorrow; they can be put off forever, or not at all – Mignon McLaughlin The evolving of the New Year was ... -
http://youtu.be/A0Gb2fvjKYo Sometimes, life gets really hard. Sometimes, things get tough. Sometimes we get pushed to the edge of the cliff. Sometimes, we even fall and w... -
I watched as her threadbare flip-flops click-clacked on the pavement of the tarred streets of Lagos Island. A baby strapped to her back, tightly secured with an equally f... -
I've been on the lookout for the solution to relationship challenges for many years. My thought was, relationship problems should have unique solutions, which formed my b... -
When we talk about love, different things come to mind – a beautiful future, romantic partner, happiness, bliss, loyalty, understanding, etc. While some people believe ... -
Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough ~Josh Billings Why is saying "NO" so difficult? In my personal a... -
Here's the crux of it all; well said by Robert F. Kennedy… Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly That is it; It can't get any more basic, and no ... -
Have you noticed how the mind works? Guess you’ve not given it a thought. Do you know you can find solution to any problem if you think well enough? Do you know that on... -
Okay, enough of excuses. Let’s be candid, you’ve given too many excuses and you’ve been on the same level for too long. It’s time to move and launch out, don’t ... -
Ok! I know that sounds so against the norm, but give me a while and I’ll help you see what I mean. Admit it, you have hardly hit your yearly g... -
Have you observed how ordinary life could be? Everybody just following the same cycle. 99.9 percent of the world's population do just enough to tag along and do the bares... -
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